Tuesday, November 23, 2010

I may have just set a record

I just had 3 DTRs in 3 days.  Granted, the middle one was simply a friendship talk, but it was still heavy and felt like a DTR....  For a woman who believes she's meant to be in relationship, it seems like all I ever get to practice is the "yeah, this isn't working" speech.

So I'm going dark for awhile in the dating world. No more online dating. No more meeting strangers and wondering if we can make something out of thin air. If you've ever thought I was picky before, chances are you'll think this means I'm closing myself off entirely to the possibility of a relationship, but I'm not. I'm just saying that the bar is raised and someone is going to have to really fight for my attention... and it wouldn't hurt if he had some connections to other people in my life first. It's not impossible. The question is whether of not it's probable... right now, I don't have it in me to care.

2 comments:

Molly W. said...

just take a breather...no pressure, no time limits, no expectations other than relaxtion and self care. love you. xo

Julie said...

Love you friend...It's ok just to be...